Interview with Di C - from the USA to Japan to Germany

Di Clarke and her husband lived in Northwest Louisiana until they were struck with a strong desire to travel. In 2003 they upped and moved to Japan where her husband taught fifth grade on an American military base. They remained in Japan for 6 years before moving to Germany. Her blog, Popcorn and Sushi, refers to a variety of topics - travel, books, food, homeschooling - all about her life in Japan.

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About you

Q: Where are you originally from?
A: Northwest Louisiana

Q: Where are you living now (city + suburb)?
A:  A village adjacent to a small town in far-western Germany—but I’m going to tell you about where I lived for six years, in western Japan, near Hiroshima

Q: How long you have you lived here?
A:  We were there for almost six years.

Q: Did you move with a spouse/ children?
A:  Yes, my husband and two children

Q: Why did you move; what do you do?
A:  My husband works for the U.S. Department of Defense Dependents Schools.

About your city

Q: What do you enjoy most about your host city, how’s the quality of life?
A:  I loved the mountains and the Inland Sea, high-speed trains, delicious food, 100-yen shops, great street fashion, the politeness of fast-food employees—so many things!

Q: Any negatives? What do you miss most about home?
A:  Being able to read things around me, everywhere—I am such a visual person, and I’m always reading (or in this case, trying to read) everything!

Q: Is the city safe?
A:  Extremely—Japan has to be one of the very safest places in the world, especially the towns and smaller cities.

About living here

Q: Which are the best places/suburbs to live in the city as an expat?
A:  I’m not sure, since we didn’t live in Hiroshima.

Q: How do you rate the standard of accommodation?
A:  Accommodations in the city tend to be quite small, but in the small city where we lived, larger apartments and houses were available.

Q: What’s the cost of living compared to home? What is cheap or expensive in particular?
A:  A lot of things in Japan are quite expensive, especially imported items—but there are many ways to economize, such as shopping in 100-yen stores and buying meals from the wonderful convenience stores like Family Mart and Lawson.

Q: What are the locals like; do you mix mainly with other expats?
A:  We lived amidst a sizeable American community.  We did have some Japanese friends, but many Japanese, especially those who speak little English, often keep to themselves.  Even if they don’t want to hang out with you, they are extremely nice and polite!

Q: Was it easy meeting people and making friends?
A:  See above.

About working here

Q: Did you have a problem getting a work visa/permit?
A:  In our situation, this didn’t apply.

Q: What’s the economic climate like in the city, is there plenty of work?
A:  I’m not sure.

Q: How does the work culture differ from home?
A:  It really depends on whether you’re working for and with all or mostly Japanese, or if you’re working with mostly non-Japanese.  Japanese tend to work long hours and stay with the same company for many years, and the work setting can be very hierarchical and regimented.

Q: Did a relocation company help you with your move?
A:  The U.S. government took care of our move, thankfully!

Family and children

Q: Did your spouse or partner have problems adjusting to their new home?
A:  Nope—but we were both really excited about moving to Japan.

Q: Did your children settle in easily?
A:  Yes—they were only 5 and 8 when we moved to Japan—kids that age are very adaptable!

Q: What are the schools like, any particular suggestions?
A:  It’s tough to start out in Japanese schools if your kids are older and don’t know much Japanese.  The best thing is to start in Japanese kindergarten, or yochien—but be aware that non-Japanese children never fit in 100% in Japanese schools; it just isn’t possible.  Get used to not fitting in—it’s not always such a bad thing!

Q: How would you rate the healthcare?
A:  My husband found the prices quite reasonable, especially when he went to get an MRI.

And finally…

Q: Is there any other advice you like to offer new expat arrivals?
A:  Take in as many cultural experiences as you can.  Explore different neighborhoods and become an expert people-watcher.  Most of all, do your best to enjoy Japan—I can assure you that you will miss it terribly if you leave (I do!).

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